Every month in 2019, I’ll be sharing a photographic peek into the previous month. I thought this would be fun to give you a behind-the-scenes look at our month and recap some of the highs and lows and special memories of the month.
It was Spirit Week at Kaitlynn and Silas’ school and they had so much fun planning their outfits. This was crazy sock day and Silas wore peanut butter and jelly socks while Kaitlynn wore movie popcorn and Sprite socks.
Silas made a tornado simulator (just like Kathrynne’s) for his Science Fair project. He worked so hard on it and did the lion’s share of the work himself.
He just needed our help with putting the simulator together and doing some of the research for his report and board (since he’d never done a school project quite at this level before).
Kathrynne and I flew to Utah for me to speak at the Everything Food conference. I love it when it works out for me to take one of my kids with me!
I loved getting to speak on one of my very favorite topics — increasing your engagement with Instagram. After taking almost two years off from doing any conference speaking, I said yes to some opportunities again this year to see how it would feel to be back on the road.
We created some very clear boundaries of what I would say yes to in order that I wouldn’t completely exhaust myself (like I did unintentionally back when I was traveling and speaking a lot more!) and y’all, I just LOVED being back on the road getting to speak again. And I came home fired up and excited for the next speaking event — yay!
I’m excited and hopeful that I’ll continue to find it life-giving because I so love getting to meet you all in person. It’s one of my very favorite things! (Psst! If you’ve asked me to speak at your event in the past few years and I’ve said no, go ahead and ask again because I just might say yes now that I’m in a better place with more capacity and better personal boundaries!)
She’s 14 and she loves hanging out with me.
I don’t say this to gloat, because just between you and me, I’ve made a ridiculous amount of mistakes as a mom.
I say this to push against the commonly touted belief that the teenage years are awful and hard and miserable. That you just grimace and hold on and try to make it through.
Honestly, yes, there are challenges. Yes, it’s like learning a completely new dance…
It’s letting go and seeing your child no longer need you like they once did.
It’s giving your teen space to learn and process and make mistakes.
It’s listening a lot more and instructing a lot less.
It’s realizing she is growing wings and, much as I want to, clipping her wings to selfishly keep her close to me will only hurt us both in the long run.
It’s a new dance and some days I misstep. But I’m loving it and so grateful for these beautiful years.
Mamas of littles, don’t dread the teen years. I’m here to tell you that, so far, they’ve been pretty amazing!
After we got back home from Utah (which was absolutely breath-taking, by the way!), I took Kathrynne and a group of her friends to see the new Avengers movie.
We went to TopGolf for Silas’ birthday.
10 years ago, I gave birth to this high energy, insanely extroverted BOY!
He brings so much life to our home and he is friends with pretty much everyone he meets. (Oftentimes, we’re out somewhere and he’ll holler out to someone he sees that he kind of knows from somewhere. I’ll be all, “Who is that?” And he’ll respond with something like, “Oh, I met him once at the park two years ago.”)
But despite his incredibly outgoing personality, I love that he is still very much a Mama’s boy.
In fact, one Sunday recently, he was telling me about how one of the men on stage has grown kids in multiple countries (he had read his bio in the church program.) I said, “Maybe that will be you all someday.” He gave me a shocked look and was like, “Never, Mom! I have to live close to you!”
He has decided he and his wife will live on our street so he can come spend time with me every day.
I love this boy so much! Being his mom has been one of the greatest privileges of my life.
TopGolf rolled out the red carpet for his birthday — including banners, a birthday card, a shark dressed up, and free Injectable Donut Holes.
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